Self Help:
Choosing Online Therapy for ADHD and Anxiety may not always
be the easiest.
We intend to support you by answering any questions you may have.
Frequently Asked Questions
Please reach us at
manahsparsh@gmail.com
if you cannot find an answer to your question.
REBT & CBT
What is the difference between CBT and REBT, and how are they combined in RE-CBT?
Both CBT and REBT recognise that how we interpret and respond to
situations influences how we feel and behave.
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) was developed by Dr. Aaron T. Beck
in the 1960s. It focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful
thoughts, emotional responses and behavioural patterns that
contribute to psychological difficulties.
Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT) was developed by
Dr. Albert Ellis in the 1950s. It places greater emphasis on
identifying and changing underlying beliefs and developing a more
flexible philosophy for dealing with life's challenges.
CBT offers a flexible, tailored approach to understanding and changing
your patterns, while REBT provides a structured framework for
examining the beliefs that influence those patterns.
At Manahsparsh, RE-CBT combines both approaches, allowing us to work
with the patterns you experience as well as the deeper beliefs that
may keep them going.
Is RE-CBT evidence-based, and is it different from simply talking about my problems?
Yes. CBT and REBT are well-researched psychological approaches with
evidence supporting their use across a range of mental-health
difficulties.
Therapy isn't simply about talking about what happened, it's
structured, active and collaborative.
You and your therapist work together to identify patterns, examine
thoughts and beliefs, understand emotional and behavioural responses,
and develop more effective ways of responding.
You will be encouraged to think, question, explore and experiment
rather than simply receive advice. Depending on your needs, therapy
may involve psychoeducation, therapeutic exercises, behavioural
experiments, learning and practising new skills, and applying
techniques to situations in your everyday life.
The aim is not just to understand yourself better, but to use that
understanding along with proven methods to create meaningful change.
How long does therapy take and what happens between therapy sessions?
We generally recommend one 45–50 minute session per week,
particularly when starting therapy. However, the frequency can vary
depending on your needs, circumstances and goals.
There is no fixed number of sessions. Many people may work towards
meaningful change over approximately 10–12 sessions, while others
may benefit from longer-term support. The length of therapy depends
on your concerns, goals, circumstances and progress.
Your therapist will work with you to establish goals, track progress
and review the course of therapy along the way.
Between sessions, depending on what you are working on, you may be
encouraged to reflect, practise skills, complete exercises, try
behavioural experiments or apply therapeutic techniques to situations
in your everyday life. This helps you take what you learn in therapy
beyond the session and turn it into practical change.
Is RE-CBT suitable for everyone? Do I need a diagnosis to start?
No therapeutic approach is right for everyone. RE-CBT may be
particularly suitable if you want structured, collaborative therapy
and are willing to actively participate in the process.
You also don't need a formal diagnosis to start therapy. Your
therapist will first understand what you're experiencing and
determine whether RE-CBT is appropriate for your concerns and goals.
Is RE-CBT suitable for ADHD?
RE-CBT can be particularly useful for adults with ADHD when
ADHD-related challenges are accompanied by unhelpful beliefs,
self-criticism or difficult emotional patterns.
It's common for people with ADHD to develop internalised beliefs such
as:
“I'm not good enough.”
“I should be able to do this just like everyone else.”
“Why can't I just get my act together?”
ADHD can also be associated with difficulties such as rejection
sensitivity, emotional dysregulation, low frustration tolerance,
perfectionism, imposter feelings and difficulties with self-regulation.
These can become patterns that add to the challenges of living with
ADHD.
RE-CBT can help you understand where these patterns come from,
question unhelpful beliefs, develop greater self-acceptance and
frustration tolerance, and respond more effectively to ADHD-related
challenges.
It can complement ADHD-focused therapy or coaching by addressing the
emotional and cognitive patterns around ADHD, alongside practical
strategies and skills for managing everyday life.
Is RE-CBT suitable for anxiety?
RE-CBT can be particularly useful for anxiety since worry,
overthinking or fear are maintained by unhelpful beliefs and patterns
of thinking and behaviour.
Anxiety can involve patterns such as catastrophising, overestimating
threats, underestimating your ability to cope, intolerance of
uncertainty, reassurance-seeking, avoidance, perfectionism and a
strong need for control or certainty.
RE-CBT can help you understand these patterns, examine the beliefs
behind them, build greater tolerance for uncertainty and discomfort,
and develop more balanced and effective ways of responding to anxious
situations.
It can also help you move beyond simply managing anxiety in the moment
by working on the patterns and beliefs that can keep anxiety going,
while developing practical skills you can use in everyday life.